The Mediator
Mediators are idealistic, imaginative, and guided by a strong set of personal values. They have a rich inner world and are often drawn to creativity, meaning, and the question of how things ought to be. Empathetic and accepting, they tend to look for the good and the potential in people.
Mediators care most about authenticity and living in line with their principles, and they can be quietly stubborn when those principles are challenged. They think in terms of values and possibilities rather than hard logic or routine, and they are often reflective, curious, and open-minded. Many are drawn to writing, the arts, or causes that align with their ideals.
Because they hold high ideals, Mediators can be self-critical and disappointed when reality falls short, and they sometimes struggle with practical follow-through or with conflict. They may take things personally and need time alone to recharge. They tend to do best in flexible, meaningful work and in relationships that feel genuine and accepting.
How rare is this type?
About 4.4% of people — somewhat uncommon.
Strengths & weaknesses
Strengths
- Boundlessly empathetic and caring
- Richly creative and imaginative
- Guided by beautiful ideals
- Open-minded and accepting
- Unwaveringly true to your values
Weaknesses
- Hold ideals the real world can't always match
- Can be your own harshest critic
- Sometimes overlook the practical side
- Take things to heart easily
- Slow to let others all the way in
At work
You're drawn to work with soul — writing, counseling, the arts, and causes you truly believe in. You need authenticity and meaning to feel alive in what you do, and when your work reflects your values, you pour a kind of heart into it that no one can match.
Ideal career paths
Novelist or writer
Counselor
Artist or illustrator
UX designer
Nonprofit & charity worker
Translator
In relationships
You love with rare depth and devotion, longing for a true soulmate connection. You avoid conflict and see the very best in your partner — and the lucky person who shares your world receives a tender, loyal, all-in kind of love most people only dream of.
Cities that match your vibe
Edinburgh
Kyoto
Prague
Reykjavik
Portland
Fictional characters
Frodo Baggins (The Lord of the Rings)
Luna Lovegood (Harry Potter)
Belle (Beauty and the Beast)
Amélie Poulain (Amélie)
Anne Shirley (Anne of Green Gables)